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Negative self talk is something many people do, but when you change the way to speak to yourself, you will see how much your life changes.

Negative self-talk can harm your well-being and prevent you from achieving your full potential. It’s easy to fall into the trap of negative self-talk, especially during tough times. But the good news is that you can take steps to stop talking negatively and start building a healthier relationship with yourself.

Here are my 6 tips on how to change the way you talk to yourself:


Identify negative self-talk patterns

The first step is to identify when it happens. I would recommend writing them down and paying attention to the words you use when talking to yourself. Are you overly critical, judgmental or harsh? Do you use negative words to describe yourself? Once you’ve identified your negative self-talk patterns, you can start to change them.

Challenge negative thoughts

Whenever a negative thought enters your mind, challenge it. Ask yourself if the thought is true. Is there evidence to support it? Is it helpful? If the thought is not true or helpful, replace it with a positive one. For example, if you think, “I’m not good enough,” replace it with “I am enough and capable.”

Practice self-compassion

It’s important to treat yourself with kindness and compassion. When you make a mistake or experience failure, practice self-compassion. Instead of berating yourself, acknowledge the difficulty and remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes. Treat yourself the way you would treat a good friend who was going through a hard time.

Surround yourself with positive people

The people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your self-talk. If you’re surrounded by people who are negative and critical, it can be easy to fall into negative self-talk patterns. Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who encourage and uplift you.

Focus on your strengths

Instead of focusing on your weaknesses, focus on your strengths. Recognize the things you’re good at and celebrate your accomplishments. This will help you build your confidence and self-esteem.

Practice gratitude

Practicing gratitude can help shift your focus from negative self-talk to positive self-talk. Take time each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful for. This can be as simple as being grateful for a sunny day or a good cup of coffee. Focusing on the positive things in your life can help you cultivate a more positive mindset.

Changing you mindset from negative to a more positive one requires effort and practice. It’s not something that happens overnight, but with time and patience, it’s possible to shift from negative self-talk. By identifying negative self-talk patterns, challenging negative thoughts, practicing self-compassion, surrounding yourself with positive people, focusing on your strengths and practicing gratitude, you can start building a healthier relationship with yourself. You deserve to be kind to yourself and treat yourself with love and respect.

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Benny Gallo

Health & Wellness Coach

I help busy working moms go from emotional eating to healthy relationship with food without restriction so they can achieve a healthy lifestyle.

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